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Coupon Abbreviations
  • SC = Store Coupon
  • MC = Manufacturer Coupon
  • SS = Smart Source
  • RP = Red Plum
  • PG = Proctor and Gamble
Coupon Terms
  • WYB = When You Buy
  • B1G1 = Buy One Get One Free
  • .75/1 = 75 cents off one item
  • .75/3 = 75 cents off three items
  • EXP = Expiration Date

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Don't get sucked in to bad advertising tactics.  Learn how to spot the true sale when you're frugal living.

Every morning I wake up to an inbox that has over 150 new emails, mostly all sharing “today’s great deal” at various websites.  The titles are all well crafted to make you long to open it as fast as possible with the fear that it could self-destruct the deal is so good.  After you open it, your dreams are smashed to learn that it isn’t “Free Shipping” as you hoped but instead free shipping on any $100 order.  Or they said the entire Swim line was on sale, but really it was the entire clearance section that was red and orange in color on sale.

To help save you from remorse over deals that just weren’t as good as you thought, lets cover some of the worst advertising tactics used by online and local marketers.

Flash Sales

You have 4 hours to open the email and grab the deals before the sale is over…  Guess what the same deals will be back in another week or two.  Rarely (like .05%) is there a deal that never returns.  This tactic along with any other time sensitive sale is just used to get you to jump now.  The boat is leaving and you better be on it…  Their goal is that you will throw caution to the wind and buy something you will never use and have really never even wanted just because time is running out.  Think of TV shopping channels, if they removed that little clock counting down on the screen odds are their sales would plummet.

Before jumping on these deals do your homework.  Head to other sites and see what their price is for the same item.  Make sure to consider shipping costs when comparing the deal.  I would also recommend that you set an amount for yourself that if the value of the item is over X you won’t jump right away.  When my husband and I were first married we read a book by Crown Financial Ministries.  I don’t remember anything about the book (not even the title) but I do remember one thing they said.  This is the perfect solution to online flash sales:

Set a limit for purchases that each spouse can make without having to consult the other spouse first.  For example anything $25 or less can be purchased without discussion.  Anything over that amount not only gets discussed it also get’s put off for a bit.  Create a list and anything you want (not need) that is over a certain amount (we said $40) gets put on the list.  After thirty days if you still want it, and you both agree, then you can start to shop for it.

Extending Deadlines

Remember that 4 hour sale from last week?  Well guess what it’s still running.  I can’t count the number of deals that I see that are “Extended”.  I searched my email for just one brand at a time.  Not to pick on Lands End, but look at these three emails that all came over a 4 day period:

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I’m curious what tomorrow’s email will be.  This is another huge reason to not believe the time sensitive sale.  Don’t rush out and over spend just to get the deal.  That deal will more than likely be there 4 months from now.

Free Shipping

Is it really free?  Most of the time you’ll open an email or see a banner that flashes “FREE SHIPPING” just to click and see that it’s free shipping with any $50 purchase.  Free is free.  The only plan here is to get you to spend way more than you planned to.  It’s get’s even worse when they give you a push saying “you only need $17.10 more to qualify for free shipping”.  They aren’t trying to save you any money, they just trying to increase the amount that spend.

With shopping online I urge you to say no to shipping.  The best deals always include free shipping.

Price Reductions

Have you ever caught a sale that cost more than the original price?  It’s incredibly common for sites to mark up items before they mark them down.  This requires the same homework as flash sales, you have to look at prices for the same item at other sites.  Another tactic that falls under this section are falsely inflated regular prices.  The site tells you the regular price is $400 and they put it on sale for $25.  In reality no one has ever sold that item for $400.  For the past 4 years this helicopter has been around $50, not a bad price really, but they have also said that it’s regular price is $130.  I’m pretty sure that the regular price is the price it’s always marked at…

There are a number of daily deal sites that play this game.  I’m not wanting to get sued for calling people out, but I will tell you that you should ALWAYS do a price check on other sites before buying.

Scare Tactics or Guilt

A technique used for centuries was to get women all riled up about a product or a cause.  Women like to talk, and even more importantly women don’t like to think they aren’t doing what everyone else is doing.  This is the tribe mentality.  We long to conform (even if say we don’t).  You want the latest spring fashions, or your kids to have the cool toys at Christmas.  Those are really light examples of how this tactic works though.

Personally I see this as becoming a huge driver of grocery sales.  There are so many products hitting the shelves now that are driven exclusively through scare tactics and guilt.  If you feed your child Fruity Crunch they will go crazy and not learn right, so instead buy this GMO free, color free, sugar free alternative.  I’m not saying that there may not be truth to the tactics, I’m just pointing out that they are there.  The problem however, is that many parents out there are barely making ends meet.  Now you have them scared that their kids will not be right unless they spend a ton on special foods.  I get that one is possibly healthier than the other… but guess what you are still alive.  Your parents weren’t on these bandwagons and fed you lots of color filled foods.  Feed your family, don’t be pressured into buying items you can’t afford just because of what the social gossip world is saying today.  In reality they will change their cause in a year or two and odds are that health food you paid 200% more for will be evil.

Fake Pictures, Houses and Food

If you are ever shopping for furniture, you almost need to do it with your eyes closed.  Every ad online, in magazines, and even in store is doctored to make you long to own it.  Clothing and cosmetics are also guilty of doctoring most visual ads.  Grab some CoverGirl makeup and your own personal photoshop expert and you can look like this star.  In reality you will never look like a movie star, but odds are you are way more beautiful than them anyway!

You’ve probably also long learned that buying that $2000 couch from Pottery Barn won’t make your house look like a beach house serene retreat either.  They never show real life in ads.  Where are the kids with their toys everywhere or the sharpie marker that your two your old took to a couch pillow.  On that note no matter how great the picture of the white couch looks…

Food marketers are also guilty here.  I once went on a trip to Smuckers headquarters in Ohio, it was a great trip but also eye opening.  I’m not a foodie, I cook simple meals and eat them.  Food photography is a billion dollar business right now though with huge tricks of the trade.  Odds are that piece of pie on the front of the magazine isn’t even edible, they have coated the out side in vaseline so that it doesn’t look crumbly, and the ice cream sitting on top… yeah it’s really a scoop of mashed potatoes.

Going Out of Business

This is the classic game started by retailers long before the internets came around.  Every year they go out of business and sell products at never seen before prices.  But yet they never close…  Now we are seeing stores actually close but promote their closing up to 6 months out.  They are trying to play off your sense of urgency and supply and demand.  If you think that your favorite Coldwater Creek Jeans will be gone forever then you need to go now and buy all of them in every size you may ever need…  (Coldwater Creek is currently going out of business with a closing date of sometime in the fall).

For local stores, grocery stores etc.  follow the same online rules you normally would.  Our goal is to only buy things at least 40% off.  If you have stores closing that are offering 20-30% off, wait.  The deals will get better.  Yes the supply is smaller, but this is really when the deals start.

What is a Real Sale

To get the best prices  you don’t need to follow any marketing tactics.  Just keep an eye on what you want, learn it’s regular price and then watch for coupons.  A great place to grab coupons is RetailMeNot.com (they also have an app that is perfect to find in-store coupons).  You want to find coupons that are at least 30% off and offer free shipping.

This isn’t a rushed thing, take your time.  The slower the purchase the less remorse you have and the more you know you got the best deal possible!


    • Sarah

      One way I get around the “free shipping” thing if there is an actual store near me is to just buy extra stuff (for example a bigger or smaller size of whatever I am buying), and return it knowing I only need one of that particular dress/skirt/shirt/pants, etc.

      • tori729

        This seems a little dishonest and like you’re ripping off the store. You’re buying something you don’t need and getting your money back so in essence you just played the system.
        A better idea would be to buy something you don’t need and give it to someone else. :)

    • Guest

      This is great information that we all really need Jenny. Thank you.

    • Emily0780

      Thanks! These are great reminders!

    • Beryl Morgan

      Thank you for confirming that my child will not go crazy if he has the occasional “fruity, crunchy cereal”! I am turning 50 soon and had the occasional Lucky Charms and I seem relatively normal…went to college and everything! ” Go crazy and not learn right” made me laugh out loud. I completely agree with you that there is some truth to the many health claims about various products, but I also agree that “making it healthy” as a trend, has unfortunately become a big (and lucrative!) business.

    • guest

      HT & BILO is bad about inflating reg prices when item is on sale as BOGO (ex: $6.99 for a 12pk of soda! really who on earth would pay that amount). Jos A Banks falls into the timed sale category…they always have another sale under a different name but the same clothes. Ive also experienced when buying online a picture of the product I want; but the actual model number is different – very similar but usually less quality and cheaper….very tricky…almost got me.

    • Shelby

      Just a note about the food we eat: what you save now in grocery bills you’ll pay for later in medical bills. The generations before us did pay with their health and we have the cancer, diabetes, cholesterol, everyone on prescription drugs to prove it. The best thing for our country and our kids is for consumers to refuse to buy food with gmo, addictive additives, colors, etc. Eventually food companies will be forced to remove the harmful ingredients to stay in business. This is not a fad. This is education and knowledge finally being passed around effectively because of social networks and netflix documentaries in a way we never were able to before. Stop and think about the health problems in this country as well as terrifying statistics on things like autism rates and ask yourself what common denominators we all have. Food being industrialized, chemicals in household cleaners, etc.